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Don’t rush things…. coz somewhere somehow
God is preparing somebody for you." You can
never be perfect… the person you love can never
be perfect too…but both of you can be perfect
through love and prayers, and your love can be
perfect through the both of you. But, no
relationship is complete without God….. that’s why
we have marriage.. it’s a bond not only between
you and your loved one…. but also with God.

Our relationships fail not because (s)he’s not the
right person….it’s because we expected too much
and we decided on our own. Let God do the
work… you may call it waiting time…. but while you
are waiting… pray. Let God guide you always… He
knows better. No, He knows best. Love is not what
you think it is….

Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first
relationship will be our last. Because we are
overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to
learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying
that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply
denying oneself for the sake of someone very
important in our life. Others are saying love is
immortal and can never be defined.

When we think we’re in love the first thing we
almost wanted the whole world to know is that our
love for someone very special can never be taken
away from us. We say this phrase: "You are the
most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever
received…" After a terrible fight or sometimes
even a petty quarrel we then say "You are the
biggest mistake I’ve ever made for my entire
life!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-
O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?

Nobody can tell what love really is until experience
speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of
the time, these love promises "Forever, Till Death
do us apart, etc." would end up "Never" and "We
should part ways, I’m no longer happy with you! My
love for you is DEAD!!!" Many times we thought
after having committed to someone and your trust
too drops down to zero degree.

"S/He ain’t the right one. I should probably wait for
the right one to come." But the big question
anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right
one?" "When is the right time?" That made us
stick to whom we are with. Will you always be
waiting for the right person to come and the right
time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don’t
be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you
can never find love if you insist that you are
already into it. Try to find time to really understand
your real feelings, to know who you really are and
what you really want in a relationship. You’re right,
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship,
but there’s a compatible partnership that goes
along with it. If you already knew that you’re too big
to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give it a try.
You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made. If you knew and felt that the
relationship will not last, don’t go deeper into it.
You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like hell
the rest of your life. It’s really hard to say goodbye
though, but you can’t make it any better by just
pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to
let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the
fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give
your heart a much needed attention. Then you will
find that you have made the right decision and you
made it all by yourself.

More frequently than not, we all act in a
hypocritical manner for some reason. We call it
love when we can’t leave someone and see them
crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it’s just
pity. We call it love when we’re too attached and
think that losing the one we love will somehow
make us weak and unable to face the storms of
life. We misunderstood, its just that we’re too
much dependent on them. We call it love when we
give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us
and imagined that if they leave, no one would
accept us and our past. We are mistaken, it’s just
insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the
truth still remains that love isn’t something you can
buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch
it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it,
but it will knock before you when you least expect
it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in
heaven, but don’t forget that it also can make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.