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What hurts…
:: letting go of a person u’ve just learned to
love
:: reminiscing the good times u shared together
:: shielding ur heart to love somebody
:: trying to hide what u really feel
:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily
fall from ur eyes
:: loving a person too much
:: giving up someone u never thought of giving up
:: having the right love at the wrong time
:: taking the risk to fall in love again
:: hiding ur relationship from someone else
:: controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a
friend
:: thinking of her every waking and sleeping
moment knowing all the while that she never even
thinks a single thought of you…
:: letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
:: holding back only to find out when it’s too
late, you both felt the
same way, but were only scared to lose each
other so much that you didn’t let the feelings
out
:: falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to
fall inlove with
:: finding the perfect girl…with only one
prob… she doesnt love you…
:: helping the one you love court your friend
:: seeing the one you love crying for someone
else
:: the waiting also hurts like hell
:: having to hear "… I’ve met someone"
:: agreeing to her wish to ‘just be friends’.
:: asking her freedom back bc! oz ’she’d be
happier with him’
:: asking u to ‘forget that everything
happened’and be ‘n! ormal’ friends again.
:: hearing that u’re treated as a bro/sis (ouch!)
:: sharing her future plans for the gal/guy with you.
:: u stopped being friends bcoz her/his bf/gf asked
her
to.
:: being denied in front of people.
:: telling u lies where he’d been when
actually, he was with a ‘new
friend’ or an ‘old flame’ (whew!)
:: fighting for that one thing that would make
you happy
:: that is, holding on to a person who can not
guarantee you commitment unless he fix himself…then,
you
are left hanging for the moment…then he says, time
will
tell… but you still decided to hope  and trust in
him…
:: PRETENDING you’re OK when inside you’re
dying…
:: PRETENDING to be strong…. and RECOGNIZING
your weakness
:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that
special person you can never have…
:: being with someone you can’t actually love…
:: pretending you don’t love a person whom you
actu! ally love…
:: letting go even if you really don’t want
to… having no right to say you are huting
because it was your decision
:: seeing the person you love hurt because of
you… and not being able to help that person…
:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the
person you love and finding out afterwards that
things will never be the same again when he/she
doesnt treat you with the same closeness as
before
:: finding out that the more you try to hate
him, the more you end up loving him, perhaps
even more than before
:: the thought that this boy/girl, used to really
love you and you loved him/her as well but you
didn’t give enough and she/he gave up on you…
:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else….
:: making a promise….and realizing that when
the time has come for that promise to be
delivered….the commitment is no longer there…
:: the hardest thing about love - believing it
exists.
After you’ve been hurt…
.learn to forgive;
.learn to trust and love again.